Happiness in this life and our salvation in the hereafter depends on patience! The arabic word for patience is "SABR".
Saddness, Worries and happiness are part of human condition. Sometimes we don't know where our life is heading towards. Sometimes we are too happy and sometimes we are too sad and in either ways we can't keep patience. In our happy moments our heart sing with galdness and in the dark moments that plung us into saddness and worry. In happiness we often forget to thank Allah for his countless mercy on us. But in the dark times, we just start complaining to Allah. like
Why did this happened to me?
Why only me?
You never showed your mercy on me?
How can you do this to me?
Have we ever thought for a moment that to whom we are complaining. The one who is the master of the world. who created this world. Have we ever paused ourself on that moment when we are in the darkest part of our life. Our Nabi's, The Auliya, They were tested by Allah (swt). They never made any complaint against the misery they were going through. Saddness,Worry is just a part of life. you can't know the meaning of happiness, the value of relation, the value of money unless and untill your eman (Faith) is not tested. It is only then you come to know the weakness or the strength of your imaan when you are tested. During the hard times in your life, Then only you come closer to Allah (swt). It is only then you speak with your full heart, It is only then your tears are worth in the eyes of Allah. It is only then you are the most closer to Allah. And it is only then you come to know how strong is your emaan and how strongly you believe in Allah, And then the miracles startsto take place. When Allah takes something from you. He is actually seeing how much you can wait with smile on your face having a firm belief that Allah is going to surprise you with something more beautiful and precious. It is narrated in Quran :Verily! I have rewarded them this Day for their patience; they are indeed the
ones that are successful.” (Quran 23:111)
“...to be firm or patient in pain or
suffering, and adversity, and throughout all periods of panic. Such are the
people of truth, the God fearing.” (Quran 2:177)
Human beings are frail. Our
tears fall, our hearts break and the pain is sometimes almost unbearable. Even
the prophets, whose connection to God was unbreakable, felt their hearts
constrict in fear or pain. They too turned their faces to God and begged for
relief. However, their complaints were surrounded with pure patience and pure
acceptance of whatever fate God had decreed. However, when things don’t go the way we planned or the way we wanted, even when
it seems that fears and worries are pushing us under, we accept what God has
decreed and continue to strive to please Him. Being patient is hard work; it
does not always come naturally or easily. Prophet Muhammad, may the mercy and
blessings of God be upon him.
It becomes easy for us to exercise patience when we realize that it is impossible to count the blessings of Allah bestowed upon us. The air we breath. The eyes from which we see. The smell of rain we can feel. The tongue from which we call the names of Allah. Indeed Allah is the most loving, The most knowing and above all the best of the planners. We just have to keep Sabrr in order to get the best from Allah. And the best from the Allah which we will get will be an extraordinary. And if we don't get the reward for pateince in this dunya (world) then Allah has saved that reward for you in the hereafter. And the hereafter life is forever. which mean the reward getting there will be forever. And much much better then that you have ever imagined.
To All those who are going through the dark aspects of life, going through any sorrows and hardships, trials, leave the sorrow put a beautiful smile on your face and say "As-Saabireen" and say 'Im going to get my reward for patience soon' because Allah is Al-Raheem, Al-wadood! The most merciful, the most loving..!